Have you ever wondered about how to attract a married woman?
If you have, don’t feel too bad about it, lots of guys have found themselves in a situation just like yours.
The truth is that sometimes you’ll meet an incredible woman that you just can’t seem to get out of your head, and if that woman happens to be married, that doesn’t change how you feel.
That doesn’t change the attraction you feel, the desire to get to her know her, the primal attraction that draws you to her.
It gets even harder to resist when you catch her looking at you from across a room, or when she smiles at you seemingly inviting you to get closer.
You can feel it, there’s a spark there, but how can you take the next step?
How can you get her to realize that your worth taking a chance on?
Keep reading if you want to learn how to attract a married woman.
Tips to attract a married woman
Make Her Feel Special And Attractive
Do you remember the last time you were in a new relationship?
The chemistry was probably amazing when things first started, and you probably couldn’t keep your hands off of each other.
But, after that initial excitement ends, things can get a bit stale.
Many relationships end because people lose interest in one another.
When you’re talking about marriage, that takes things to a whole new level.
Chances are pretty good that this gorgeous married woman that makes your heart race is secretly lonely inside.
She and her husband probably aren’t as close as they once were, and she is probably longing for a man to make her feel beautiful and wanted again.
That’s where you come into the picture.
Now, whatever you do, don’t come on too strong at first.
This is a married woman that we’re talking about, so if you start to try to move too quickly you’ll probably scare her off.
Remember, she’s got a lot to think about.
She has a husband, she may have kids, and she has a life she’s built with them.
For her to indulge in her fantasies and start an affair with you, she’ll have to be willing to risk that.
Chances are that when you first meet her, even if she’s very attracted to you, she won’t be willing to take the plunge and put the life that she has at risk for you.
At least not yet.
Start out by speaking to her frequently, but keep things casual.
You don’t want to start getting into a lot of detail yet, that will come later.
Ask her how she is, see how her day is going, and empathize with her.
If she’s having a hard day tell her that you’re sorry, and ask if you can help.
At this point, you’re trying to open a dialogue and get on friendly terms with her.
You want to disarm her and see you as someone friendly that she can open up to.
As you begin to get to know her a little more start sprinkling in compliments.
Tell her how nice she looks today, if she gets her hair done, make it a point to notice it and compliment her.
What you’re doing here is laying the groundwork.
You want her to know that you notice her, and you want to start dropping hints that you’re attracted to her.
Watch her body language around you.
Does she touch your arm when you talk, or brush her hair back and smile?
Does she lean close to you when you speak and is she happy to see you?
These are signs of an attraction, and they’re an indicator that you’re ready to take things to the next level.
Once you’re personable, flirtatious, and you know she’s starting to feel what you are, become a little more aggressive in your pursuit.
You don’t want to scare her off, but you want her to know how you’re feeling.
Make sure you tell her how lucky her husband is, and encourage her to talk about her life.
You have to remember that she’s the one taking a major risk here, so be patient and persistent.
You also have to remember that you can’t ask her out on a date like you would another woman, since she may find it hard to get out of the house.
Instead, invite her lunch, talk to her, and if you feel the moment is right, kiss her.
Listen To Her
Do you know the one trait that almost every woman finds irresponsible in a man?
It’s a man that listens, is attentive, and is compassionate.
Do you care about her problems?
Do you need to make her think that you care about her problems?
Resist the urge to tell her about your problems, and instead focus all of the attention on her.
This will make her feel important, and it will probably give her the one thing she doesn’t get at home, emotional support.
Women crave an emotional connection, and even if that’s not what you want, you want her to be attracted to you, right?
That means you need to foster an emotional connection, and you start this by listening to her, empathizing with her, and showing her that you care.
Shower Her With Attention
Once things have progressed and you’re becoming romantically involved, make her feel like the center of your world.
Let her call the shots and decide when she has time to see you.
Put her at ease and let her know how much she means to you, and how much you appreciate what she’s risking, and that you’ll always respect her needs.
This is the kind of attention that she probably hasn’t gotten from her husband in years, and it’s the kind of thing that will get her to open up to you, and hopefully become intimate with you.
Where Will This Relationship Take You?
If you’re interested in a married woman there are two favorable outcomes.
You either get her into bed and have a passionate affair with her, or you have a passionate affair that ends with her leaving your husband for you.
Which outcome you’re hoping for depends on what you want out of the relationship.
You need to remember though that this woman has probably built a life with her husband, and she may not be too keen on leaving that life behind.
You also need to think about the baggage that she’d bring with her, and the mess that her life will be if she ends up leaving her husband for you.
This doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t pursue this as an end goal, but you need to be very clear that you are in it for the long haul.
The honest truth is that she probably doesn’t want to leave her husband, and that should be just fine with you.
Enjoy your time together, and when the time comes for things to end, then you’ll always have the memories.